I was drifting off while writing to a post on a forum thinking of my early memories. My first memories are of Cornwall where I was born. In my Grandparents bakery in Padstow the same room that my Mother was born in. I remember all the bake-house people making the pasties (no carrots). Grandad had a labrador called Kim and some times I would ride on his back. Grannie would take me down to the Harbour Cafe which they also owned where we would collect old bread and go and feed the gulls.
I can’t remember living in Leeds although we had 2 addresses there.
We moved to Swannington in Leicestershire. The house was a 2 up and 2 down with an outside toilet. There was no mains water (we had a well), no mains sewer (toilet was emptied by the Night Soil Man), we had no electricity (we had candles). Mum cooked on a range and the weekly wash was in the washouse. the boiler was heated by an open fire and I remember seeing her take a shovel full of the living room fire through to the boiler
My dad paid for all the services to be laid on. I saw the house recently and someone has bought the 2 houses and built an extension. It now looks really nice.Those houses were all very modern and up to todat’s standards
After that we moved to 2 more addresses in Leicestershire and then to a flat in Wisbech in the Isle of Ely. Dad was then promoted to 3rd Officer in Hastings Fire Brigade
I finished my schooling at Bexhill on Sea but because of moving and my birthday somehow I managed to miss a year of school as a result I applied for a place at Hastings College on General Studies.This was a time that I really enjoyed as it was so very diferent to school.
So I was at college and was making new friends. I had one friend (Brian) who had several lectures the same as I had. One day he said the famous words “Have you got a record player?” “Yes” I said. “Oh! good” said he “Want to come to a party?”.
Well I got to the party not knowing anyone there and realised that I was there because of the record player when I decided to get to know some of the local talent. Suddenly this girl came and sat on my knee. We stayed together all evening and I even walked her home (only to find out where it was)
Well the following day I went and knocked on her door (I think they heard my knees knocking rather than the door) and we went out for a walk. Well we got over the Sunday tea and the meet the family that day so that ritual was over.
She was 15, I was 16 When I was 19 we were married. We have ended up with 3 wonderful children and 8 smashing grandchildren and now one great grandaughter.
Well to put it into a nutshell we have had some mountains to climb and we have been into the valleys of life but we have travelled together. Now we have retired together and there is still a lot of living to do -together.